place my ashes in a vase beneath ur workout bench.

"When a man says no in this culture, it’s the end of the discussion. When a woman says no, it’s the..."

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:33:55 -0400

““When a man says no in this culture, it’s the end of the discussion. When a woman says no, it’s the beginning of a negotiation.””

- Gavin De Becker (via dandyions)

I have noticed every time, EVERY TIME, I state a strong opinion about something on Facebook - a bunch of men will come forward to try to talk me out of it or convince me of something else. Every time. Only the men do this.

(via mousesinger)

Some men really don’t like to be disagreed with by women. And when it comes to consent in sex-positivism, it is a tool for negotiation.

(via swordssoarewords)

See also, when a woman states that she is strongly opposed to MRA (or, you know, insert whatever ideology or viewpoint) because it is anti-woman, and men try to negotiate her boundaries with her.

(via catandkitty)

Oh my god THIS. Recently I made a Facebook status telling rape apologist MRAs to unfriend me, two cis men privately messaged me, after I unfriended them no less, to try to convince me I was wrong.

99% of men are just disgusting, and it makes me sad and angry.

(via sanityscraps)

Wow I’ve never really heard it put this way before but it’s so fucking true.

(via sexxxisbeautiful)

ghostparties: class of 1998 by anuschka blommers & niels...

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:32:38 -0400

ghostparties:

class of 1998 by anuschka blommers & niels schumm for self service

thefrogman: I believe that there are a small group of women who...

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:24:22 -0400

thefrogman:

I believe that there are a small group of women who hate men just for being men. I believe that the textbook definition of the word misandry fits that description. I believe there are bad things that happen to men. I believe those issues should be addressed. I do not believe that a fringe group of women who hate men can be blamed for those issues.

Misandry was a dead word until recently. A group of men who feared the progress of feminism revived the word and used it to undercut the movement. They like having the power being a man provides and they don’t want to lose that. So they created a movement, found a bunch of legitimate issues that affect men, and tried to blame women for those issues. They called this misandry. It’s like conservatives using buzzwords like “death panels” to make people fear health care. They let people assume it meant Obama wanted to kill your grandma. They let their cute little phrase infect the minds of good people and convince them of falsehoods.

People are telling me that men cannot report rape without getting laughed at. They say this is misandry. It is the fault of women who hate men. But that just doesn’t make any sense to me. When I seek a logical explanation, it seems more likely that this is because men are supposed to be strong and women are supposed to be weak. And rape has been viewed as something that happens mostly to women. So if it does happen to a man, they must be weak. How did this idea of men=strong and women=weak start? I’m pretty sure it wasn’t because of misandry. It is an ancient patriarchy collapsing in on itself.

Feminism is about fighting inequality. It’s about erasing the strong/weak perception ingrained into our society. Misandry, as the term is often used today, is about trying to blame women for anything bad that happens to men.

If you want to fight to fix issues that affect men, go for it. But I would really consider distancing yourself from this term. It is used to evangelize folks into a movement that is very problematic. A group that can’t handle scrutiny of their comic books and video games, so they send death and rape threats. A group that calls women sluts and think they ask for rape if they show too much cleavage. Those are the people who coined this term, and you should want nothing to do with them or their language.

mowwwg: “you can’t wear that!!!! people will get the wrong impression!!!” the impression that i am...

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:15:18 -0400

mowwwg:

“you can’t wear that!!!! people will get the wrong impression!!!”

the impression that i am a hot babe with an ass that just won’t quit???? honey that ain’t wrong that’s just fact

grimyboy: if you love someone let them go. if they come back it was meant to be and if they don’t...

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:12:32 -0400

grimyboy:

if you love someone let them go. if they come back it was meant to be and if they don’t blaze it 4/20.

moon-will-rise: fjsdlndnskfa how do you stop measuring your worth based on other people

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:06:27 -0400

moon-will-rise:

fjsdlndnskfa how do you stop measuring your worth based on other people

justsoicantalktoyou: Smoking tough femmes

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:05:50 -0400

justsoicantalktoyou:

Smoking tough femmes

The Channel 4 News Team in NYC (5/18/2013)

Mon, 20 May 2013 01:05:43 -0400

The Channel 4 News Team in NYC (5/18/2013)

Photo

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:54:00 -0400

homoarigato: this will forever be one of my favorites makin me...

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:52:53 -0400

homoarigato:

this will forever be one of my favorites

makin me miss boob hickeys so bad

justfloated: mona lisa x sasha grey

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:50:51 -0400

justfloated:

mona lisa x sasha grey

caffenespeaks: raymondhymentact: Yep I Really Like This A Lot...

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:44:30 -0400

caffenespeaks:

raymondhymentact:

Yep

I Really Like This A Lot ohhhhhhhhhhhhoooooooo

"It feels good to think about you when I’m warm in bed. I feel as if you’re curled up there beside..."

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:36:38 -0400

“It feels good to think about you when I’m warm in bed. I feel as if you’re curled up there beside me, fast asleep. And I think how great it would be if it were true.”

- Haruki Murakami (via hellanne)

jermey-hoover: Parenthetical Girls | Forward To Forget

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:32:48 -0400

jermey-hoover:

Parenthetical Girls | Forward To Forget

antst00fs: I can’t believe the soda company from Hey Arnold bought Tumblr

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:16:51 -0400

antst00fs:

I can’t believe the soda company from Hey Arnold bought Tumblr

That bathing suit is from Anthropologie.

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:05:06 -0400

WHO’S THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PERSON ON THE INTERNET

HINT: IT’S YOU

apparently I give off the impression that I Hate Everything and am Very Hard to Impress which makes...

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:02:25 -0400

apparently I give off the impression that I Hate Everything and am Very Hard to Impress which makes me sad because I like so many things why don’t you see

pizza-grrrl: princecryingto: princecryingto: Laura Stevenson...

Mon, 20 May 2013 00:00:32 -0400

pizza-grrrl:

princecryingto:

princecryingto:

Laura Stevenson and the Cans - “8:08”

and that ghost claws at my arms, it makes me do wrong; it makes me do wrong, and it rattles the walls and it pushes you down, and it’s sorry, it’s sorry; so even though it’s cold and it breaks apart your bones it’s floating urgently outside your door— when you spoke, when you speak broken on your knees— I’m a joke, I’m asleep; please, please, please; please, please, I’ll be on my feet if you want me. I’ll be on my feet if you need. I’ll be on my feet if you want me to be.

SO EXCITED TO SEE HER IN A FEW DAYS!!! EEEEEEEEE!!

sle4zy: new york is in the mothafuckin house!!!

Sun, 19 May 2013 23:58:46 -0400

sle4zy:

new york is in the mothafuckin house!!!

think my guardian angel was formerly an English teacher

Sun, 19 May 2013 23:56:52 -0400

think my guardian angel was formerly an English teacher